How to be a friend to someone ...

when you yourself is sad and just wants to be alone.

How do you not alienate your best friends? Having to cancel last minute due to feeling unwell ...

Trust me; I am not proud of this.

I can see why she is angry and feels as though I don’t value her. But when you have a probable Crohn’s flare and are depressed? And thinking about “what if dad’s cancer returns?” So I want to spend as much time with him as I can ...

I feel bad for venting my woes to her, and for canceling last minute on a few occasions. I do value our friendship, and her.

What to do? 😔