Every single time I feel good, working out every day following one of the programs, everyone puts me down...now it’s my husband...how I’m not doing enough, I should be in the gym...there’s no way I can do the workouts with the weights that I’m using...I use 12 lb weights...I said but so many people don’t go to the gym...and then it discourages me! I Want to lose the weight that I have on me, and I thought doing what I am doing is good